Over the last six months, I have
blogged about how to escape. From secret speakeasies to
immersive cinema, London is an escapist's playground. But what I haven't mentioned until now
is why to escape.
When asked what my blog is about and I
reply with 'escapism', I usually get one of two reactions; either
someone instantly gets it, their eyes light up and they say 'Ooh you
should write about ….'. (Please keep this coming!).
Or they look at me like a
sympathetic therapist and say, 'But what are you escaping from?'
Humans have always felt the need to
escape, and over the centuries this has taken many forms; Roman
gladiator fights, Shakespearean romps at the Globe, hippy communes
and happy hours.
True, escapism can have darker
connotations; drug addicts, spendaholics and fantasists are prime examples of escapism gone a bit wrong. And our
current rose-tinted nostalgia for bygone eras and the 'good old days' does beg the question, 'What's wrong with the
here and now?'
But I also wonder what's
so virtuous about gritty realism? If we lived only in reality, and
expanded our minds no further than our immediate surroundings and
daily routines, how would anyone ever conjure up the imagination to
write music, to dream up Narnia and Hogwarts, to build a spaceship or
even to challenge their current situations and dream of a better way
of doing things? Life would be very dull indeed.
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The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe (Walt Disney Pictures, 2005) |
The importance of escapism should never
be underestimated. Having worked in the hospice sector for nearly
four years, I've seen first hand how seemingly small pleasures like
learning to paint, going to the seaside or enjoying a favourite
childhood meal can make the biggest difference to someone in the most
difficult circumstances of all.
My own interest in escapism admittedly
started as a result of a broken heart, when my friends
rallied round, making sure I was never alone and filling my calendar
with fun and diverting activities. And although now, thankfully,
everything seems to be ticking along quite nicely,
I'm still nurturing my escapist state of mind.
This doesn't have to mean you are
dissatisfied with your own life; I think it's about living in the
here and now whilst opening your eyes to the everyday moments of magic
that are all around us. It's about embracing everything that's not
sensible, realistic, rational or mundane, and not getting bogged down
by the necessities.
In short, escapism keeps you sane. The
trick is to enjoy 'bite-sized' pieces of
harmless escapism, just enough to take the edge off real life without
retreating to another world altogether.
Having had a very real, very sad last
few weeks as our beautiful Granny slipped away from us, perhaps
unsurprisingly I've struggled to get into that mentality where I want
to write about fun little diversions.
But then I remember that Granny herself
was somehow both hilariously pragmatic and a born escapist; she
travelled, she laughed, she read, she bet on horses, she drank before
lunchtime and she fell in love (usually with “big men with little
brains”, in the words of my great aunt).
So in memory of Granny, I have chosen a
few quotes to help me – and anyone else who might need an emergency
dose of escapism – to recapture the magic in everyday life.
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Night Sky by Babak Tafreshi, from telegraph.co.uk |
“We are all in the gutter, but some of us are looking at the stars.” - Oscar Wilde
“The moment you doubt whether you can fly, you cease for ever to be able to do it.” ― J.M. Barrie, Peter Pan
“What I’ve found does the most good is just to get into a taxi and go to Tiffany’s. It calms me down right away, the quietness and the proud look of it; nothing very bad could happen to you there, not with those kind men in their nice suits, and that lovely smell of silver and alligator wallets.”
― Truman Capote, Breakfast at Tiffany's
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Breakfast at Tiffany's (1961) |
“If a soldier is imprisoned by the enemy, don't we consider it his duty to escape?. . .If we value the freedom of mind and soul, if we're partisans of liberty, then it's our plain duty to escape, and to take as many people with us as we can!” - JRR Tolkien
"One of the very nicest things about life is the way we must regularly stop whatever it is we are doing and devote our attention to eating." - Luciano Pavarotti
"Some
movies are slices of life, mine are slices of cake." - Alfred
Hitchcock
“And above all, watch with glittering
eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are
always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don't believe in
magic will never find it.”
― Roald Dahl
“Ah,
music! A magic far beyond all we do here!” - Albus Dumbledore
“Anyone
who lives within their means suffers from a lack of imagination.” -
Oscar Wilde
And finally, for those worrying about
the escapist's hangover, whoever said that coming back down to earth
couldn't be part of the fun...?
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Felix Baumgartner's leap from space, from telegraph.co.uk |